Friday, June 4, 2010

As Promised...

     I want to share with you my memories of day 2 of our
JeanMarieHelme memorial weekend.
But I have to admit, the past two weeks have been such a blur and so much was packed into the last 14 days, that I have to rely on my photos to help me with what happened when. So you are getting much more than a 2nd day report.... (check out Mish's blog on our actual 2nd day at Donna's... see here)

       In these last 2 weeks, there were 3 full days on the road, 1 day of airline flight, a viewing, a funeral, grieving, laughing, visiting...


(Childhood friends~my brother, Jim, and Bobby)

 meeting a new Great-niece, Lucy (great in the literal sense)...
                                                        
seeing old, familiar city sights...

Note the hot dog cart across the street~yum!



      During the Jersey weekend, there was a multi-opinioned discussion on "who really is a 3rd cousin once removed" (Gene, have you figured it out yet?), porch rocking, shower scheduling, iced-coffee drinking, flea market bargain hunting...

Danny manning his stand with Donna looking over his shoulder (lol)

Baby Bria hitching a ride

Robert checking out the video games

and there was Cake Boss stalking (see here)!

      On the road to Mo, I spent a night at a high school friend of my daughter, who is the mom to a number of young foster children as well as her own, and I marveled at her motherly skills (see here). I played detective (thanks, Vic), and got the #'s of two friends from my St. Pete days who now live in various areas of West Virginia, just to say "hi" as I drove through their state ~ even though I was in WVA for just a measly 5 minutes.

      And in the last two weeks I drove over the St. John's, Savannah, Santee, Cape Fear, James, Potomac, Delaware, Susquehanna, Ohio, M-i-s-s-i-s-s-i-p-p-i (!) Rivers, just to name a handful, and I canoed down the Big Piney River with Hope and Charlie (I love rivers, by the way!)...
      


        
       I spent 9 glorious days in a little town nestled in the Ozarks with my daughter, son-in-heart, and granddaughter...


A budding photographer

  I meet a number of their wonderful friends...
Charlie and Hope with some friends
Hope with some neighbor friends

        And in this militay town, I realized there is truth to the cliche - "there's nothing like a man in uniform!"  They were everywhere!!! The phrase "eye candy" comes to mind.  (Hmmm... can I even use the words "funeral" and "eye candy" in the same blog!?  Somehow, I have a feeling that my Mom wouldn't mind...lol.  If she was there, her eyebrows would be raised quite a few times, with a head nod towards the uniforms walking by)....
                                                                 My mom with a man in uniform (her firefighter ~ lol)

       I spent a number of hours in a barn breathing in the scents of leather, feed, hay, and the sweet aroma of horses, watching in amazement the bond between Hope and her horse as other horses whinnied from their stalls...


        And I participated in a search for a band of wild horses that roam the area known as the Ozark National Scenic Riverways (so you can imagine how beautiful that area was!).  And the search was successful (see here)...
      During this day, as Charlie, Hope, and her friend, Trinity body-surfed the mild rapids in a crystal-clear river.... 


...Michelle and I explored a trail armed with our cameras.  We must have passed no less than 20 caves carved into of the side of the mountain as we hiked under granite outcroppings.  (So there you have it, Brother Jim.  I did go on a hike and a mountain was involved...lol)  Beauty was everywhere....




         On one of the days in Mo, we had a Nana/Hopers time (see here), and our outing included a special lunch in a silver-clad diner on Historic Route 66...
And amazingly, our waitress, who was a young woman, had a "Nana Bun".  What are the chances of that!...
  Many smiles these past two weeks as incidents such as this occurred!

   So many wonderful memories wrapped around the occasion of laying my mom to rest.

   And now I'm back in Florida and there is no noise of the walker coming down the hallway. 
 Her absence is keenly felt. 
She was a unique woman, a good mother, a fun Nana to her grandchildren. 
 She made an unforgettable impression on all she met.
  She will be missed by many!
And her memory will be cherished!



Thursday, May 27, 2010

One Book Complete and The Sequal Continues

Friday, May 21
After a service where Veronica's Irish prayer was read
along with Yuriko's lovely sentiment,
 we laid my mom to rest beside my dad
and next to my brothers, Butch and Chuck....
and then we proceeded to celebrate her life
with laughter, food,
stories, and more.
Here's a typical sight at an Irish funeral
(or maybe just at a Helme funeral:)...
a cooler full of "cold ones"
to offer up a toast...
We made our way over to the Mark Twain Diner
in Union to feast with the family and friends.
Here's my brother, Jimmy, making the
rounds of the tables.....
A table of cousins and Uncle...
A table of Grandkids and a little Great....
The books continue ~ Lucy and Hope
(Nana's two Great-Granddaughters)...
Jimmy assigned to some Lucy duty. 
They seemed to be getting along
quite well...
The Patriarch of the family,
my Uncle Leo, getting some love
from me and Donna (or visa-versa)...
From Union we jumped over to
Hoboken
(Rae, Mish & Hope, Robert & Christa)...
 
...since some of us in the crowd are
Cake Boss fans,
and we couldn't resist taking a detour...
 
And as we were sitting across the street from the bakery,
(and actually on a side street)
eating our cannoli....
The Cake Boss, himself, came strolling by
(someone up above was smiling down as
The Cake Boss is Hope's favorite show!)...
We strolled down the alley behind the bakery
where Michelle had a Marilyn Monroe moment,
much to the delight of one of the bakers...
We then hopped over to Courtney's apartment. 
Courtney is my cousin, Cheryl's daughter.
Cheryl and I were best buddies growing up, and it was
great for the two of us watching our children
get acquainted
(Cheryl's in the middle; I know you're mistaking
her for one of the kids!).....
This is the view at the end of
Courtney's street about a block away from her place
(OK, Courtney, I have an idea...let's swap places
for a week!!!).
Spectacular....
The next stop was
Liberty State Park...
...where my girls wanted to reminisce
about a visit years ago with their Nana and PopPop
(the Twin Towers were very much missed,
as are my mom and dad)...
I have to say it's official; the Empire State Building
is my all time favorite building.
I've been to the top only once as a child with my
brother, Chuck.  My mom and dad waited on the
sidewalk below (LOL)...
We were reluctant to leave, but there was
more on the agenda, as in a good
night's sleep.
To be continued, a recap of day two......

Sunday, May 16, 2010

1925~2010 A Life Remembered

"We spend our days asking ourselves
what is the meaning of life.
Your news today has caused me rather
to look at the meaning of death.
And I've come to the conclusion
that death is the fulfillment of life.
Chapter after chapter,
Jean's pages tell stories of joy,
laughter and challenging times...as it should be...
her childhood,
young romances,
friendships,
hopes both achieved and dashed;
her marriage,
her beloved children, her grandchildren and her great-granddaughters.
Now the book is complete...
the wonderous fulfillment of a wonderful life."
~message from Yuriko